So the two of you didn't have to buy anything on credit? Where did you get your furniture? (Not that it's any of my business . . . but you see what I'm getting at.) This has been a pressure free existence for the both of you, with no bills until you got married, or got into this house. And, for awhile, you two were in honeymoon mode, but now that's over.

No wonder his father was nice to you for a few years. He had this unemployed son, and you took him in.

So, yeah, your husband is mad over paying bills. He's not used to doing that. Neither are you.

At least, you seem to be functioning alright in school and on jobs. He hates having to go to work. Did he manage to get through college?

The both of you are devoted to physical fitness . . . beyond the norm. (I think you said you spend two hours a day on it. He's obsessed.) What is that all about?

This is a bizarre relationship. He can't socialize normally, but you can. I would say you are reasonably sane, while he is a very disturbed young man. Initially, I don't know what this guy had to offer, other than looking good, physically . . . buff, as you say. That goes a long way with an 18 yr old girl. That's a bit young to choose a life partner. You made a big mistake.