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Originally Posted by artemis-within
dear t: i was thinking this morning while driving (i always think when i drive lol) about how i seem to be in this place of "i used you for what i needed you for, i'm done now, so move along..." i don't think i really feel so callously do i? then again isn't that what you're in the business of, helping people to not need you anymore? i really don't think i feel that well, cavalierly about it... so i'm not sure where that came from exactly... do you think i feel that way, that i'm being dismissive of you? hmm.
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I think it's a good thing you have these thoughts. It means you're getting ready to move on. It doesn't mean you're dismissive of your T. It's how therapy and the therapeutic relationship works. On one hand you feel your completely attached to your T but on the other hand, when you're ready for it, you feel some kind of distance. That's good. That's how you move on.