It happened a while back... I actually threw a small-scale controlled preschooler's tantrum with T and felt much better. Moral of the story: it's okay to act like a three year old sometimes, as long as you know you're acting like a three year old.

And we sorted out the ignored emails problem. He was really busy/ had poor coverage and I was feeling extra needy.

One of those times when 'talk to your T' worked just like it should.