I just said something I totally shouldn't have said. It was like "I have this information about something that hurts us so I'm going to share it so you can hurt too". And so I told my mom that I had read something that indicated that some legal issues one of my family members is going through are probably on the worse end of the spectrum. She doesn't want to know these things....Facts help me cope, not her. I know that. I knew last night not to say anything. But oh no, give me a chance and I'll ruin someone's day.

And there's no taking back what you've said. I'm trying to call and apologize and her phone is down and she's not answering her cell which she probably can't hear.

I hate doing these things.