Ive just discovered that i may be codependent. Today. My friend has listened to my rants and raves for around 13 years. She is sooooo fantastic and i told her that today. And, i apologized for being so selfish always ranting about my relationships. She has been knowing this about me.. she just didnt have a "name" to describe it. Not that i would have listened, even though she always did. It is the right time. Im glad she was there for me all these years. I am ready to begin healing though. And, she is still supporting me even though today she baptized her baby. So, no matter what you tell your friend, she may not hear you till the timing is right. Good luck