Patty

You've trained yourself well. I think they can tell you're not emotionally vulnerable. Maybe they approach you because they see you're not easily breakable. Wherever it leads - to friendship or further, relax and enjoy your recess on the playground. As long as you continue to protect that part of your heart that can be wounded, you should be safe.

I wouldn't worry about getting back in touch with your femininity. That's what puberty and the teenage years were for. You own it now girl.