The funny thing is I could see all this in my first marriage but my T has pointed out that I still have this going on-I get that we both share this issue it's just wow I didn't see it this time-the details & situations are different but the end game is the same. It's so hard to break out of these habits & traits-my current hubby is great as far as affection & helping out it's just any decision making-on me. Organizing of events-on me. Thanks for the support-I know I have to break out of the habit of saving him on every little issue it's just idk frustrating to see I still have this going on with all my other stuff-sucks. Something else to work on with my T.