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Originally Posted by Rose76
So the two of you didn't have to buy anything on credit? Where did you get your furniture? (Not that it's any of my business . . . but you see what I'm getting at.) This has been a pressure free existence for the both of you, with no bills until you got married, or got into this house. And, for awhile, you two were in honeymoon mode, but now that's over.
No wonder his father was nice to you for a few years. He had this unemployed son, and you took him in.
So, yeah, your husband is mad over paying bills. He's not used to doing that. Neither are you.
At least, you seem to be functioning alright in school and on jobs. He hates having to go to work. Did he manage to get through college?
The both of you are devoted to physical fitness . . . beyond the norm. (I think you said you spend two hours a day on it. He's obsessed.) What is that all about?
This is a bizarre relationship. He can't socialize normally, but you can. I would say you are reasonably sane, while he is a very disturbed young man. Initially, I don't know what this guy had to offer, other than looking good, physically . . . buff, as you say. That goes a long way with an 18 yr old girl. That's a bit young to choose a life partner. You made a big mistake.
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I had my bedroom set, dinning room set, couches, and a TV from when I had my own place. Andy you are right Rose. Again. We have not bought anything on credit. His mom gave us her bedroom set, living room set, and another bedroom set. We got a lot of weddings gifts that we are now using. Rose. We haven't had to buy anything at all. We did buy two large TVs. Other than that. Nothing. Yes my husband is mad that he has to pay the house payment. I'm not mad that I pay the small bills.
Once he changed jobs and started paying the mortgage he said it was my fault that he bought this house for me. That we could be in a smaller house but I had to have a big house. Yes our house is big but I didn't go see it. He seen it and purchased it. Yes it has been a hassle free few years and now I think he hates it, and me. No one can go through life living for free. We're to old for that. He tries to say every penny he makes and has done an excellent job at it.
Yes Rose76 I know exactly where this is going.
He's shy about 6 units from an AA but didn't go further because he doesn't like school. I'm good and I get along with mostly everyone. He can go back to school if he wants to.
I go to the gym 2-3 times a week for approximately 2 hours. I wouldn't say that obsessed. I don't have anymore time. He's obsessed.
He also mentioned that he was extremely mad at me. I took a friend to the beach when she flew out from Virginia. We were there for about two hours. This is another reason why he said I don't know how it is to work at a stressful job and pay bills. She asked when she flew out if I would take her. I didn't take the day off. I was already off that day with one job.