hey, my ex and i went to a party right after we married. this younger woman just couldn't let us out of our sight. my radar went off......she was an ER admissions clerk. one day i walked into ER to have lunch with him (cafeteria) and there she sat with a teeshirt on that said "President" and on the back it said "of Dr. fan club"..........you talk about a kick in the stomach. and the ER director let her do that??????????????????? how much more inappropriate could that have been? no wonder she "stalked" us at parties and such............

there are things that aren't done. and the fact that he'd seen her with the shirt on and didn't speak up was a thorn in my side for ages.

you didn't act like a teenager. you were really stressed out by seeing her. your husband acted like a freaking teenager with a sick crush on another woman.

hang in there and be assertive to take care ofyour inner self. and you do NOT have to tell him what you andyour T talk about.....xoxox pat