As each individual is different and it's very difficult to find someone who only has a personality disorder but on the contrary, there is what is known as comorbidity, and even the primary and secondary disorders. I'm curious about all the reasons lead you to avoid contact with other people.

Mine are:

- Fear of failure ( not being good enough).
- Fear of not being liked or being criticized.
- Fear of being hurt ( sensibility, my borderline traits)
- Fear of hurting others. ( I think this is due to my borderline traits as well)

I was thinking lately, of something I always have suspicious and now, I find it some sense. I would like if you feel related to it.
I always had the sensation that there was a rage, a streght, an energy...don't know how to call it, that I always had under control bc I didn't know how to use it in a good way. It's like if I would give it freedom it could bring me problems and hurt other people. My way to keep the control over it is avoiding situations and people.
I don't know if I explain myself very well. I hope someone feel related and I can share with him/her.

Thanks for reading!