This is a hypocrite society. Men want women who stay by their parents until they get married. Way better if women have had only two boyfriends. They can understand women have a sexual past if they have had a very long relationship, but they despise a woman who has had a lot lf sexual partners. Thins are evolving, but it's a mess. People are starting to love together, but most of the time it's only when men have decided they do want to marry those girls ot it ends very rough for the woman who dared to just go living with a man.

Men also want the perfect housewife who cleans and cooks and looks after the kids, but now they are starting to want a woman who works and brings home some money, without fully realizing that they have to help at home too.

This guy is not a modern guy. He's a regular guy for this country standards. In fact he is a little old fashioned, cause he wants the perfect wife and mother for his children. But he understands that at this age everyone has a past.

It's not a matter of dependece, it's a matter of respect. My cousin lived in Europe for five years and she was the main family provider after her dad's death, but still she obeyed her mother when she came back to live at her mother's house. Their house, their rules. But you have to live it to understand it.

No, I'm not looking for a job right now, because I think I need to figure out first what I really want to do for the rest of my life. I don't need the money, because I don't want to move out and my mother gives me everything I want. I'm a very spoiled girl, my entire family loves me, including cousins and aunts. I'm not that overprotected, it's not like I can't do anything without my mother's permission, I'm just too spoiled. And by that I mean that most of the times I get my way.

As I told this guy, I never wanted him to ask my mom for permission. I just wanted him to quit telling lies about him being her all time favorite coworker. I don't care if my mother likes him or not, it's me who needs to like him, not her! And as I told him when he asked how my mother is towards my boyfriend, she is not nosy! I'm sorry you also focused much more on that part, but thank you anyway.