Until I discovered porn, I didn't realize that I have a dominant sexual nature. I love women in their infinite variety of shapes, looks and races. And I've always liked women who were open to being physically pleased in every way(minus pain or s&m/not into that at all!). My wife used to be quite kinky, then, after marriage(no children)within a few years, she reinvented herself into someone who 'tolerated' sex. For the past five or six years, no sex at all. Her verbal and emotional abuse gradually robbed me of erectile function and libido. At least porn eases my frustrations. AlwaysChanging2, your insights and personal experiences are most enlightening.