I have hear that ECT has helped a lot of people. It is not as bad as the myths about it assumes. But it is not for everybody, and there are potentional side effects to this treatment. But I think it is at least worth it to look into. I have not tried it myself, but I have become somewhat open to the idea to treat my depression. But I have not tried a lot of different meds, so of course that is something I must do first. I really do hope you guys find a way out of these problems. It must be so hard to cope in such situations