I just want to let you know that I can relate. I have spent over $600 now over the last two to three weeks on clothes and accessories and my little family doesn't have the money. It will be a burden to pay for all of this. That said, we just got a check in the mail for $650 from an accident I was in almost 2 years ago. Coincidence? Is there a way you can take out cash? Or does that cost money on your card? If so, you could take only the amount of cash you need with you. Maybe put a note in your wallet by the card as a reminder when you are tempted to spend too much? I hope you find an idea that works so you can keep it under control!