I don't understand what he needs help with either.


I also don't understand why you would want to tell your friends something so private about SOMEONE ELSE...

How is his bedroom business any of their business? Would you be okay with him discussing what you like in the bedroom with his buddies???

Their opinion wouldn't matter if you didn't give them something to have an opinion about.


You don't mind his food, beverage or color preferences, why mind what he looks at?


Now... If HE thinks he should cut back, or he's bordering on obsessive or addiction, then by all means, help him seek help. But don't go attempting to cure the man because you're unable to understand him.


Ps. I don't mean to sound mean, but the fact that you've considered leaving him over something, which in essence, has zero impact on your life.... Well now that speaks volumes about you and your idea of love.