I just visited my friend in hospital. His the same age as I, 45..his in the last days of cancer and I feel so grateful to have known him..he was always positive in life.....his positivity just radiated from him...even today through his fears I saw that same positivity that he has...its funny I felt really at peace sitting with him.....felt my own fears of death and dying easing as I watched him....Tis true, no one promises us tomorrow!