Welcome to Psych Central (PC) lizzabell. Sorry to hear you are suffering from relationship issues. These can be bumps in the roads to two caring people or a pothole that disables a relationship if one person like the man is narcissistic and insensitive. relationships are a lot more than the body. If that is all he wants, there is not much to talk about after the excitement fades a little.
Some people choose talk therapy with a therapist if the relationship is worth saving or just to help themselves.
Many people who are actively involved in Psych Central find it helps take them out of their own problems to develop empathy for others. And their problems though still there are more manageable. There are lots of compassionate people here that can make the load lighter by sharing and caring. Feel free to participate actively at Psych Central.
Some people find the forums give them the compassion and empathy they seek.
http://forums.psychcentral.com
Please feel free to private message me or any of the Community Liaisons by left clicking on the name in blue to the left of their post) for questions or just to share.