People in my life only know of NPD because of me. Now I also do not share any of my issues with anyone besides my wife and here. People who would be speaking against NPD don't really bother me much anymore. I will say when I first came online and saw all the victims of NPD abuse writings, that did bother me then. Now not so much as I also see that most of the people involved with a N for some reason always attract them and keep winding up with them. This is where I see them for their issues as well. People who need people like us and the cycle continues.