Thanks. It might be nothing, because he doesn't hide his visits and online chatting with these women from me, but I haven't seen his computer or phone conversations. Still, I can't help wondering.

I'm not ok with this, but my sister thinks I'm in no position to have to leave. I'm normally up in the wee hours of the night, but I sleep all day. Not much I can do about it if he's cheating, but no, I don't think I deserve it. Thing is, he's had no sex drive for years. I have pain with intercourse, which I've always had, with no solutions from doctors, and my sex drive is very low, possibly because of meds and/or thyroid issues. You'd think I'd be glad he's shown no interest, but I've never stopped wanting my sex drive back and to be desired.

Sorry, I'm blathering. Thanks for your replies.