Hello there dude,

What i see is life as it is supposed to happen, of course there seems to be quite a lot happening around you. Somewhat like a spider web with you being the spider. Too many flies have got caught in this web, some big flies and some small. The big flies have managed to break parts of your web, being that they are too big and the small ones, well they just exist around. Now the problem i see here is that, you (the spider) seems to me a very caring individual who is concerned about all of the flies, but have not noticed that the web is slowly breaking apart around you.

So what I'm trying to get at here is that, without a web you will not have any flies at all in the first place. And if let the web break apart you will fall to the ground and will have to reconstruct the web all over again. Because spiders like humans are survivors.

Therefore, what you need to do my friend, is you need to concentrate on rebuilding that web and let the flies be there of let them fall to the ground or rot away. Because the flies do not matter as long as the web falls apart. Only with a complete web will flies come.

I hope you understood the jist of what I'm saying. If not, regard the flies as jobs, people, relationships and what not around you, and the web as your world. So you might have to let of off certain things and try to re-analyze and prioritise stuff. Its the universe way of saying (or sam cook) 'a change is gonna come'.

Either accept it or run away. The choice is hard but its totally yours as a human.

Also don't take on other people burdens just so long as you have solved yours.