Hi-

Due to insurance, I have to find a new T. I liked my previous T & knew she cared for me. I trusted her, which is difficult due to childhood trauma related to a mother issue/emotional abuse neglect. She also was one of of the few whom would call me on things...which I need. Or listen as I told my tales of woe and would say, close to the end of the session."If it was me, I would not do "whatever' any more, if it did not make me happy". I need to hear that.

I have spent years regurtitating my past hurts & am sick of it. There are no results....The last T did help me alter some of what I wanted to change.

How do I choose a new one? I know whether we click after the first 2 sessions..I know I need a female close to my age or older.

Any advice would be most appreciated.