Hmm, I had to think about this for a bit.
I don't use my T as a role model for most things (because I do not know my T well-enough to consider it), but some things like "good self-care" and positive self-talk are things I may take from my interactions with T. It may not be something T does outside the office, but I wouldn't know...
As for other things, I don't see how I could know enough about T to consider her a role model. Maybe in my effort to be less judgemental? I dunno.