I don't get why suicidal thoughts and self-injury, especially in someone young are something you need someone highly specialized for. It seems common for people with emotional problems,, especially these days. Have you thought about getting a referral from a hospital or doctor? A referral from a medical person might be more grounded in reality. The ritual abuse stuff was mass hysteria and that would worry me. Plus, how old is this woman and how long will she be around?