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Originally Posted by boredporcupine
I would be running away so fast it would make your head spin.
There are some T's who love drama and intrigue and would prefer to be treating, talking or writing about sexual or ritual abuse or anything juicy rather than garden-variety problems. Not that sexual abuse doesn't happen, but why go looking for it?
There are also T's out there who love to feel like the ultimate nurturer and rescuer and probably get too much pleasure out of people saying they saved their life.
Both of those are dangerous traits to have and in no way conducive to actual healing IMO.
Anyway, what is your actual presenting concern? If you haven't been ritually or sexually abused exactly how is this T suited for you?
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Good point. I was concerned why my t was fishing for something that wasn't even there in any way? It took me several sessions to figure out where is she leaning. Until she asked directly. There is nothing in anything I ever said that indicated I was ever sexually abused. It shocked me.
My issues are trivial probably in comparison to being sexually abused. It's not that exciting to listen how I get anxious paying bills and how I wish I could save more money to travel see my daughter more often etc not juicy enough.
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