Aww Fuzzy You have enough people trying to make you feel guilty and hurt. Don't help them do it. They don't need help nor do they deserve it.
And the guilt and blame isn't yours. Makes me wonder why they try so hard to give it to you. Lets hear an angry I'm not gonna take that crap from them grrr
No, a bigger one like this: GRRRRR! Sometimes it takes an anger.
Later on you can just give them a disinterested yawn