Yes and no. I think of my previous T as somewhat of a role model but seeing as I don't really know her and I saw her for such a short period of time it doesn't quite fit. It's more that I project traits that I admire and would like to emulate onto her. I imagine her being how I would like to be myself...
Like others have said, my T isn't a role model so much as he models how to do various things for me - healthy relationships and self acceptance for starters... He tells me that I'm a role model - for women who are in or have been in abusive relationships. Not sure how I feel about that one...
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At poor peace I sing
To you strangers (though song
Is a burning and crested act,
The fire of birds in
The world's turning wood,
For my sawn, splay sounds,)
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Dylan Thomas, Author's Prologue
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