My T violated my privacy with a neighbor I was having issues with. There was a dispute over property lines and I was taken advantage of. I made the mistake of saying my neighbor was pretty and my T must have jumped on the phone immediately to call her. He came up with some story to convince (really manipulate) her into seeing him as his client. He then asked me to change my appointment to accommodate this neighbor (can you imagine the gall of this guy?). Then he proceeded to give the neighbor an account of my weekly sessions. My most private thoughts that I had never told ANYONE. I did not know he was seeing the neighbor until it was far too late, over 2 years. He tells my neighbor and she loved every word of it because she had new gossip for everyone in the neighborhood. We were a close knit group until my T decided to exploit me to impress a pretty girl. I am livid, heartbroken and it has made me sick.

Lesson: Never refer your T to anyone close to you. They can't keep a secret. Never give the real names of people you are having trouble with. Make up their names if you have to. Never let them get to close to you. I was totally duped for a loooong time. It has been the worst thing that has happened to me in my life.