I voted "I use the therapist as a role model for some specific things but not in general". I don't know enough about her personally to say she's a role model overall. And there is something that I suspect about her personally that I do not wish to emulate in my life. I don't really want to share that publicly though. Not that it's anything bad, it's just something that's very not me is all. The things I see her as a role model for are: having boundaries (I've established some with my family where I'd never had any before), being able to laugh at myself, and being humble enough to know the work never stops. Stuff along those lines. I admire the heck out of her for those things.

And for putting up with me, of course.