I'm starting to get a glimpse I think, of what my t is "really" like (hence what I said in my initial response to this thread) - our t relationship has felt different recently, part of that involves the sense on my part that she's not really working anymore to keep "her stuff" out of my sessions, as there are comments she makes here and there that she would never had said in the past. Ever since she recently told me that I don't need therapy anymore, that i haven't for awhile, things have felt different. It's interesting though, I'll say that! I feel like I'm seeing more of "her" and less of "the t persona" or something. And it's not a bad thing, at all. It seems like the perfect way to end our work together. Sorry didn't mean to hijack. The poll just really set me to thinking!