People here have "good or bad and all or nothing" thinking. What I have learned is several of the loudest critics here are usually in the black, bad or nothing mood. When I read that I am wrong I just
1) consider the source
2) read it like a professional would
3) realize people here are not recovered
4) determine that they may be seeing things in the all bad, negative or black way of thinking
5) let it go can't change their opinion anymore that they can change my experience
6) move in
The problem I see is that the loudest critics keep coming on here with the same problems repeatedly. I hate to watch them suffer but if they are not doing what their professionals nor their online support is telling them then they just need to hit their bottom and then start over. I can help anyone that truly does not want help. I have used this forum as a "*****" session to share my pain. Others do too.