Keep telling yourself that. Time heals all as we progress and grow in wisdom and understanding. It's an ongoing battle but luckily we move threw it as we ride the wave of time. Maybe slower than we would like but still as long as your working for a better tomorrow the tomorrow that is better will eventually come. I like to pray and think god never says no to what we ask. He says either ok, not right now, or something better. Ask not for an easier life, ask for the strength to handle it. I think JFK said that.