Listen! You don't give up on your plans for you and your husband! Do as much as you can for your daughters but you defend the right to be with the love of your life above everything else!

There's no need to feel guilty! They sound like they are both adults and responsible for themselves. They're past the age where your responsibility to them comes first.

I'll elaborate more if you need me to, but for right now, I just want you to know that having your husband with you comes first, ok????

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