((( Jan )))
Has the surgeon said why he doesn't want to do the biopsies?
You can always get 2nd or 3rd opinions...
Have you researched this? There are some areas of the body they don't like to biopsy because it can allow cells to get out and move to other areas. Could they be containing this in this way?
You deserve to have a full explanation of what they are doing or not doing and why.
((( Jan ))))
P.S. You could never hurt anyone's feelings, you are so sweet!