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Apr 30, 2015, 10:42 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: US
Posts: 13,284
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Originally Posted by clairelisbeth
Rainbow, Im a heterosexual women, yet I can really relate to the idea of a "teenage girl crush." I've even had them as an adult. They were always with smart, successful, kind, attractive, bright, well-dressed, confident women. It wasn't so much about wanting to be WITH them sexually as wanting to be around them, to talk to them, to BE them sometimes, to be like them, to look like them, to merge with them, to have them love and want to be around me. A whole host of things that you pretty much mentioned. I'm a huge proponent of IFS, and I think that doing parts work around what is coming up is a great idea. I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone-I've experienced this, and I'm sure many other women have too. :  :
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Thank you very much, clairelisbeth. What you wrote makes me more sure it's that teenage crush part who is appearing. I emailed my T again and asked if we can do IFS next time because an adult part is judging the teen part very harshly! I want to have compassion for both parts but it's hard. I like IFS a lot! I may send you a PM because there aren't many people to discuss it with on the forum.
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