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Originally Posted by Gavinandnikki
I, too, had intense MET towards my long term therapist. I could. Not. Stand. It. Anymore. Sorry for the typing drama but it was intense.
Seeing her, and not having her, became too torturous. I had to stop.
I would come to sessions high or drunk. She wouldn't tolerate that.
We reached an impossible impasse. She wouldn't give up so I did.
I got to the point that what I had to have was never, ever, going to be provided.
So I terminated my therapy.
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Are you seeing a different T. now? I know I still have issues to work through. And, I know what can't be provided and have grieved over most of it. I really don't seem to know what I want anymore. just no more transference but I've heard it can happen with any T. Maybe a different personality would make the transference tolerable.