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Originally Posted by Soccer mom
Are you seeing a different T. now? I know I still have issues to work through. And, I know what can't be provided and have grieved over most of it. I really don't seem to know what I want anymore. just no more transference but I've heard it can happen with any T. Maybe a different personality would make the transference tolerable.
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Sorry to be negative but transference happened for me with 5 Ts. If it's a pattern for you it will probably continue. For me, it was stronger with some of my Ts, but I don't know why. Maybe it won't happen with a new T, but I wouldn't bet on it. I think accepting it is a better route, but I know how hard that is! I'm in the middle of this reoccurring crush on my T but we will use the transference or whatever it is to learn more about myself. More grist for the mill, T says.