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Originally Posted by ThingWithFeathers
I know it's hard to notice the changes we make while in t, sometimes we just don't see them. I know I'm not the same person I was when I started t - that I am more able to speak about myself. Heck, I was a shaking, trembling little thing barely able to string a sentence together when my t first met me and, now, I can actually talk in session. I feel like I have to hide the extent of the challenges because I don't want to let my t down.
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Don't think u r giving your T enough credit. She has stuck with u so far. Has anything changed? U are not responsible for how she feels. She can take care of her own feelings + hopefully she is showing u how to take care of yours. I don't think she needs u to make her feel like a good T. How do u know what she thinks is a good patient. Perhaps for her a good patient is one who has a crisis + is willing to work thru it + be honest with her about what is going on with them. Don't think u will let her down by telling her honestly what is going on and what u need help with. That's her job. If everthing is fine, then what do u need her for? It sounds like she has helped u a lot, let her help u some more.