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Originally Posted by Ashes87
Hey Everyone, so let me give a bit of a quick rundown here. 1 Month ago my fiances mother moved into our home. Ever since, my fiance has been showering A LOT, and grooming himself. That is just for starters..I thought he was cheating but he is always home right after work. He always takes his mothers side over EVERY single thing...he never helps me around the house, but as soon as she calls his name for something he does it at the drop of a dime...always! She will have him take out her trash and various other crap...
He has not been paying attention to me. Well, he gets home at around 1 AM every morning after work...I have been up for the past couple of nights to make him dinner when he gets home. And when he gets home and sees me up, he is like why arent you asleep yet? Why are you always up when I get home? You need to go to sleep...it has been like this.
Well, I was talking to his mother today and she mentioned that he was wanting to sleep in the bed with her, but they were afraid I would find this weird....Well now I do..when she mentioned that I just started having flashes of why he was showering all the time, and taking care of himself, and why he treats her like a Queen and me like crap, and why he sides with her over everything. It like hit me like a pile of bricks.
Am I insane? Or is he sneaking up there while I am asleep and doing things? Why would she say that? Why all of a sudden is he acting this way...I feel in my gut something is wrong...Should I stay up late and act like I am asleep and sneak and see if he is up there and what they are doing?
And then yesterday, they were wrestling and playing around in the living room. She can wake him up and he be happy, if I wake him up he snaps at me...she kisses him on the forehead and everything.
Someone help!!! Thanks
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Umm without even knowing for sure whether he is doing it or not, the whole situation is one that you should probably get out of. Alone, just the idea taht he's obviously a mama's boy presents you with a situation that is going to be an ongoing problem anyway. On top of that the way he treats you is wrong, especially in light of how he treats his mother with more respect and attention than you.
Pile on top of that the fact that his mother would mention her adult son sleeping with her to you... and [that she is] actually unsure of whether that would be weird to you? Seriously anyone in their right mind KNOWS this is weird and the majority of fiancees woul find this to be the case. SMH. Get out of there. Fast. Don't even consider whether he IS doing it or not. This is a weird situation and just screams trouble.
*added note* even at best case like the earliler poster that mentioned maybe she's messing with you. Anyone who would go to that length to mess with their son's fiancee is really messed up. I highly doubt it is made up though.