(((SoccerMom)))
I suspect that your T is reaching a point where she feels that unless you yourself face the transference head on and reject it - ie: accept that she is not your mother and you must stop responding to her as if she were, that she will not be able to help you.
I know that's hard as hell (been there, done that) but unless you do you will lose someone you care deeply about.
Transference is a valuable tool, but only if you're willing to separate from it. It must be experienced, then examined. If you get stuck in experience she is not going to be able to help you.
Sorry, SM, probably an unpopular opinion


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