Seeyalater, after you finish school, you will have more time to figure this all out. It's important that you learn from this, learn how to stand up for yourself, learn to see where you have been passive and he took over too. Learning to do things "for yourself" is important because you will less likely attract yet another man who wants you to again be passive, these individuals get so they know what to look for.

And if you do part ways with this young man, work, have your own place, pay your own bills, learn how to be independent, know you "can". In todays world that is very important for a woman to have, it gives her confidence that she "can" fend for herself if need be. You are going to have an education, a new job too, so you can do this, and at 24, you have your whole life ahead of you. So, this relationship isn't working, there truely is more fish in that big sea out there. You are actually going to do a lot of growing the next few years too.