Darling, I very much wish I could speak with you in person, but that's somewhat difficult when we are on different sides of the pond!! However hunny, PLEEZE do do message me and I WILL reply, no matter what you want to talk about. You won't ever shock me, im 56 and seen a lot of life, some id rather not have seen. You can always write me a PM if it's very personal or delicate remember. LOVE, as ever. XXXXXXXXXXXXXXX