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I find that determining boundaries works by first knowing myself. Who do I want to be? For example, I want to be a kind, capable, competent person with a certain set of values. I also want to be someone who I respect when I look in the mirror. There are details within that, but that helps me define where that line should be.
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“It's a funny thing... but people mostly have it backward. They think they live by what they want. But really, what guides them is what they're afraid of.” ― Khaled Hosseini, And the Mountains Echoed
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