Don't think u r giving your T enough credit. She has stuck with u so far. Has anything changed? U are not responsible for how she feels. She can take care of her own feelings + hopefully she is showing u how to take care of yours. I don't think she needs u to make her feel like a good T. How do u know what she thinks is a good patient. Perhaps for her a good patient is one who has a crisis + is willing to work thru it + be honest with her about what is going on with them. Don't think u will let her down by telling her honestly what is going on and what u need help with. That's her job. If everthing is fine, then what do u need her for? It sounds like she has helped u a lot, let her help u some more.