I am not blaming you, especially for him cheating! I am just trying to understand what's happening. What you described isn't kind of life two of you enjoy or deserve , yet you stick together because you can't be on your own, and that is rather sad. That's why I said I'd rather try to live with the sister or maybe there are other people./relatives. I wouldn't handle these late night drives and no sex along with other nonsense. He either cheats or just hates being home. Either way it sucks.

Honestly no one ever knocks on my doors. Ever. And I am off in the summer and are home many days. If they want something they call. One time neighbor knocked because I left a key in my door. I was glad he did. But that's seriously the only time. I lived in different cities in different apartments, with my daughter when she was minor and alone.

Sure house is better but I am just saying apartment is not the end of the world and there are low income apartments that you might have to wait in line to get in. The ones in my area are nice I live in a regular two bedroom but I've been inside low income ones and they look just the same



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