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Originally Posted by stopdog
Tell her what you don't like about her is what I would do. I don't believe that clients are difficult - I think that therapists may be wrong for someone or just plain wrong. And they can be quite difficult themselves.
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This is very helpful stopdog because I have a tendency to get all "it's my fault please forgive me a day love me again" because of my early abandonment issues . But in this case I really feel at least half the blame is on her for not paying attention. So I don't want to fall into that " I'll do anything for you no matter how you hurt me" mentality which was how I was with my mom despite long and pervasive abuse. I deserve more respect and consideration than I got. Thank you stopdog for reminding my