I need my T to listen to me and actually hear what I'm saying, even if that means reading between the lines a bit. She is actually pretty good at this, annoyingly sometimes she catches things I don't particularly want her to.

I also need to learn to trust so I suppose she needs to prove that she is worthy of that trust somehow. Non judgemental and kind. I don't much care if people aren't kind to me but I like people who are generally kind to others, so I suppose it's quite important that she isn't a complete ahole in session