hi lizzabell
i really cant say it any better than what the other two posters have said. it may have been "innocent" on his part, but it was a really dumb move and thoughtless thing to do. It is disrespectful to you and your relationship. It may have been a lapse in judgement, but i would be left wondering how often I would have to worry about these lapses in the long term. I would wait before moving in together as well. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome