Hey, I'm only 23 years old and I feel like I'm having a mid-life crisis. I don't take any meds or hormones, don't drink coffee, don't eat sugar, get plenty of sleep(10 hours average), am not over worked, live a very low-stress life style, eat organic, go hiking at least few times a month and smaller walks more frequently, and have a very patient boyfriend of 3 years. The thing is I have very little sexual drive, have no inspiration or creativity(I used to be very artistic), and almost every day, no matter what part of my cycle I'm in, I have at least one angry melt down where something went wrong(like trying to flip an egg and it doesn't flip right and the yolk breaks) and sometimes it happens multiple times a day. I actually avoid cooking eggs now because I suck at flipping them. These melt-downs rarely end in tears though. I just get really really mad and I feel my temperature rise. I kind of wish I could cry more actually, and I'm wondering if hard drug use in my teenage years has affected me, and is still affecting me 5 years later. I still have happy moments through-out the day. My days are just very up and down. I feel like I have no passion left except for anger and random ideas that I'll never actually get around to or finish. I do notice the day before my period I have an ultra-meltdown that keeps getting worse. This last time I beat up my bed and tore everything out of my closet, scattering around the room. You know, I think I actually felt better when I was smoking and drinking coffee because now I'm completely sober, I'm fully aware of what's going on in the world and I'm mad at the whole world. I feel the pain of the whole world and the Earth and I'd rather just hide in a cave with a bunch of pillows and blankets.
Anyway, I'm just wondering what the hell is going on. I feel like I'm doing everything "right" and I still am very angry and freak out on a daily basis. I sometimes feel like I don't know who I am as a woman, that I am not "womanly" probably because of what I see in the media(I don't have TV and only recently got internet for the first time in 5 years). I don't wear any make-up, no jewelry and I don't shave. I do wear semi-feminine clothing though. Also I don't have many friends because I live 8 miles off a crappy dirt road.
Sorry for the long rant... Just wondering if anyone else feels as crazy as I do?