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Originally Posted by Lostdeepinspace
I often think of this too..... and I must admit.... Sometimes I just think its someone to talk to. My friend and I talk often... but my partner and I have different work schedules... i work days and he works nights. We when are together it is great... but we are more apart than not. I sometimes think that is whats going on..... my friend is filling the void of closure and comfort.... and that doesnt mean its flirting or anything... he just makes me feel good when we converse.
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This makes a lot of sense to me... Don't put yourself down for it. As long as your feelings for your friend are just that you really care for him and you don't flirt with him or anything like that, I don't think you are doing anything detrimental to your relationship with your boyfriend. It's quite admirable that you wish all the best for your friend and are there for him.
I understand how it is nice to have friends' company when we feel lonely. I can imagine how difficult it is for you and your boyfriend with different day/night work schedules. But you said your relationship is going well and that's what counts!
