Thank you for your replies! So far so good with no alcohol. He started his job today which I was worried about. It's in a city, it is a 12 hour shift for 2 days for now. It is an hour drive BUT I don't care right now. He is not earning much BUT I again don't care. I am so happy he finally got a job and he seems good. He could not be to choosy because he can't pass a drug test due to the weed use. This job didn't care about the weed. They asked and he told. He came home after his 12 hour shift and looked like he was good. He talked some. He smiled which you don't often see.

I do worry because so many other posts on other forums said that zoloft didn't help them. So far, it has been almost 2 weeks and it seems like there is a small change. He is not complaining of anything.

Not sure what is up with the gf. I don't even ? it because I do not want to get him upset. 3 years ago this month his first love of his life broke up with him and that set the major ball rolling with depression. The anxiety was there but not as profound. After she broke up with him the drinking started. It progressively became worse. Thank God he has stopped so far. I know he can do this.
I do worry thought because if the gf is cutting the strings I am afraid he will go backwards. He practically has only seen her 13 hours in 4 weeks.